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I once heard the question “If you live a lifestyle that allows you to experience your fantasies do you ever run out of things to fantasize about?” My answer to this is quite the opposite of what one would expect. Not only do you not run out of fantasies, I have more fantasies now then I did three years ago.

This lifestyle affords me the opportunity to see and do things I never would have imagined had I not seen or heard them first hand. With these new ideas in my head I am cable to morph and play with the scenario and come up with multitudes of new sexy and fun dreams.

A fellow newbie podcaster, wildflower (http://wildflowerthewildside.blogspot.com) listed out the experiences she has had and those fantasies that she would like to experience. Sort of like a sexual promiscuous bucket list. We’ll call it a Slut List. (For those who have not yet read “The Ethical Slut”. 1) GO READ IT and 2) Slut is a term of endearment) Anyway on to my Slut List:

- Threesomes, Foursomes and More-somes

Mrs. Cardz was the first real sexual partner I had ever had. Meaning before her I had done some soft play with other girls but not oral or penetrative intercourse. It wasn’t until after we got married that we started to explore our sexuality both with ourselves and other people. Since then we have had threesomes both MFM and FFM in many forms and fashions. Although there is one I would still like to try. I would love to see Mrs. Cardz give me head while being fucked by another guy doggie style. We’ve done this the other way around where I fucked her but I’d like to watch her face while she gets some in her favorite position. I’d also love to just watch Mrs Cardz in a FMF threesome. Get to see the whole thing from an outsider’s perspective. Like my own little porno.

In the case of more-somes, I love it when everyone is crowded together on one bed. I don’t care how cramped it is. It’s the aura or atmosphere that is intensely erotic in that situation. I’d like to have more play sessions like that.

I’d also like to have a Five-some. FMFMF. I’d like to have two couples and a unicorn. Throw all five people on a bed and pass the unicorn between us. Just sounds like a hot time for all.

-Location, Location, Location

There are a few places I would like to have sex. Some swinging some I’d rather have just me and my wife. The places I would like to have sex with my wife include a movie theater, in a sex swing, on the roof of a building (which is strange since I’m afraid of heights), and on the desk in my office.

There is something about the office sex fantasy. Might have something to do with screwing someone in the place I get screwed everyday. I’m joking. I truly think I have this fantasy because I spend more then 40some hours a week behind that desk. And some times it helps pass the time if

I eroticize the situation. Which includes my wife sauntering in a long trench coat, closing the door, drawing the blinds, opening the coat and she’s wearing some sexy lingerie…..mmmmm….oh yeah back to typing.

A few places I would like to swing at are a hot tub, a car, and an inflatable moon bounce. Both the hot tub and car I’ve sex with Mrs. Cardz in but I think it would be fun to fit two couples on in the front seat and one in the back and just have fun with the new environment. Mrs. Cardz and I are both fans of hot tubs and although we did some playing in the hot tub in Desire it was much too large to get a good mood. I’d like to get 3 or 4 couples in like a 10 person hot tub all just doing their thing.

The last location I listed was an inflatable moon bounce. Now this may seem strange to you however one of my best friends and favorite play partners had a fantasy of playing on a trampoline last year. I was more then happy to assist her in fulfilling that dream. We had a great time. Although we did find some complications that we think will be rectified in a moon bounce. So this summer we’re renting one for our joint birthday party. (More details as they arrive)

-Just Great Ideas

A few fantasies I have that don’t fit into either of the other categories include: Getting a dual blow job from two women in schoolgirl outfits. I went to catholic school all my life but I never really appreciated the schoolgirl outfit until I joined the lifestyle. Where as I have ALWAYS appreciated the dually blow. Put the two together and that’s one HoT fantasy.

Mrs. Cardz and I have not yet tried anal sex. I’d like to give it a go to see what it’s like. Although something tells me it’s not all it’s cracked up to be. (No Pun Intended) On the other hand it could be REALLY HoT. Only one way to find out.

I do have to agree with wildflower on one fantasy. The idea of taking a stripper home one night sounds really HoT! Figure you go to the club see her dancing. Like most people you lust after her. Which in essence is her intended goal but in the end you get the satisfaction of knowing she truly wants you as well. Sounds both gratifying and sexy.

And Lastly there are a few couples in this lifestyle that we have grown close to but have just not had the opportunity to play with yet. We’re hoping that one day soon the stars aline, the clothes come off, and the fun ensues.

Hope these ideas give you something to fantasize about and like I said this list will be adjusted and change over time. I’ll check in on it from time to time and keep you posted.