A Follow-Up Conundrum

Well this week although physically exhausting has caused more mental gymnastics then I ever thought possible. A harmless muggle BBQ turned into a flurry of questions and stories…I’m getting ahead of myself.

This past Saturday we decided to throw a party to celebrate the warm weather and our favorite professional sports team. The event was intended to be mostly muggles besides Mrs Cardz and I and the Quakers. Oh and another couple who although they called us out a few years back are not technically lifestylers. Also in attendance was the better share of my family.

All was going well for quite a few hours. The weather was great, the music was loud and we were laughing, drinking and eating to our hearts content. Another couple, friends of the Quakers showed up. Now we had never met this couple before but had heard about them. As Mr. Quaker was doing introductions he made it a point to introduce Mrs. Cardz and I as “friends”. The new couple easily picked up on the distinction however may have thought more people were included in that “friends” label besides just us. Perhaps assuming that my sister and her husband were swingers as well.

As the night drew on most people retreated inside to watch the game however the new couple, Mr. Quaker, and my brother in law stayed outside. I found out a few days later that some comments were made that may have given our secret away. Remember the other couple may have thought my brother in law was one of us. Mr. Quaker told me that my brother in law had remarked about trying to set my sister up with another woman.

Even more intriguing is the fact that my brother told me that my brother in law had told him (yeah I know rumor mill) that he and my sister had gone to a swingers party on Monday night! My first question was “Who the Hell throws a swinger party on Monday night?” followed closely by “And why weren’t we invited?”

Now all of this may be speculation but it raises a few questions. Now my Brother in Law is not the brightest light bulb in the box. He loves my sister and in the end that’s all that matters however I wouldn’t put it past him to try and coerce her into the lifestyle. Which may damage their relationship.

Whether my sister and her husband know our secret I can not say for sure but I almost want to out ourselves to them and give them advice on how to get into the lifestyle should they both wish to do so. It’s a strange situation that Mrs. Cardz and I find ourselves in. I’m almost positive that my sister and her husband would not be surprised if we told them but if all of the stories I’ve heard this week are true, is it the best course of action? We have been in the lifestyle for 3 years now and we have learned A LOT over that time. If they want to join the lifestyle that is their decision and I hope they would accept a bit of wisdom from us. On the same note though I don’t want them coming to any of the clubs or parties we go to. May be a bit strange to be playing with a couple, look over and see my sister, naked, in the distance. I’m Just Sayin!

~Jack

(As I was writing this my RSS Reader showed a post from Deviant and BB. Go check out their blog and see how another couple is handling a similar situation. Thanks for the plug guys. Stay Sexy!)